
Well, my friends, it has come time again to let the voice of the studly but retarted Preston Finch…
First off, I must give a brief warning. This is just my ramblings of what I think, and what I have learned about what I want (not necessarly what you are comfortable with or what not…) But, me personally.
Soo…
Pay attention-
pay attention-
pay attention, please!
During the very first fruitful days of college, I (Preston) began to realize something, something not about myself, but about the people around me. What they wanted, needed, and felt. I mean, I would spend just minute after minute listening to guy and girls talk about their “horrible” lives of how their husband to be suddenly left them for a more fine CHICKA!
Well, I could basically laugh my face of listening to these people just talk and talk. Until I had to bite the bone…it happened to me.
Now, to give a little background, I had been dating a girl named Courtney for a number of months (seems like forever!) Then, because of certain uncontrollable and also controllable factors. We broke up, the one thing I could depend on was….shattered, broken into millions of small and pointless fragments. For awhile, I felt confused, confused on what to want with a “relationship” Should I go for fun, the long hall, or just to claim a prize of hey, she’s hotter!
Now, from my various knowledge gained over the past few months, I started asking the question. Why does everybody have to have somebody?! No, not the song…
People, especially my age are looking for that “gap” filler. Rather it be acceptance, partaaaayin, or even making good grades (nerds) And, it just seemed that people usually just wanted that special person. They were looking for a guy/girl that they did not even know what type personallity they wanted in them. They were looking for the treasure before they even had the ship!!
Like, me for instance…oh hey, she’s hott, and yeaaa….she’s funny(not really), and did i mention she’s hott?
Now guys, don’t get me wrong, I strive for the best that I can be. Meaning, if I date another girl, she’ll be stupidly attractive (and if I can’t get that….well, next down the list) But, the point that i’m trying to get at is….is that gril/guy that you’re dating really worth it? I speaking from experience can jump from girl to girl, and not really be happy at all. I can show her off to my friends and family, but deep down inside, I want to morph her brain into something bigger! (ok, i do at least..) It was like, after I get past all the makeup and freakishly nice body, I wasn’t impressed. I knew I was doing this just for pleasure, for my own pleasure!!
Now, I’m not saying that you cannot date, because it is evil, of the devil, and pointless! I am want you to ask yourself after you end whatever kind of relationship you had, whether it be, for fun/pleasure, a serious one, or whatever else, WAS IT WORTH IT! Was it worth it when you stair into your bride to be, and thinking yea…I gave 25% of my heart to her, 15% to her, 10% to that one girl, oh at least you get half!!
I know, honestly, that will probably happen to me, as careful as I am…
But, can you strive to want something better. Does that girl have to be your girl, or can you just be her friend??
March 14, 2008
Categories: Life.... . . Author: prestofive . Comments: 2 Comments